How it works

  1. 01

    Take the two-minute quiz.

    Six questions. You get the deck built for your stage, not a generic one.

    The questions are about how long you two have been at this, who's in the house, and what your evenings actually look like. Nothing is stored and no email is required. At the end you get one deck, not a shortlist.

  2. 02

    Print and cut.

    A PDF, nine cards to a page, with cut marks. Ten minutes and a pair of scissors.

    Regular paper works. Cardstock works better and survives a year on the counter. The file prints on US Letter with no bleed, so any home printer handles it. The rules mat is one page; put it in the drawer with the cards.

  3. 03

    Draw one when the house goes quiet.

    One card, both of you answer. Twenty minutes, most nights less.

    You don't need a plan or a standing date. Most couples keep the deck where they sit at night and draw one when the last door closes. If a card lands flat, draw again. If it lands, stop at one.

What were you good at before we had a schedule?

Card 14, New Parents deck.
Two coffee mugs on a wooden table